The Fine Line Between Mentally Tough and Stupid...

There is a fine line between pushing and building your mental toughness with hard gut-check-style events and stupidity.  Mentally Tough or Stupid?  That is the question a young man recently asked me about his preparation for one of our nation's special ops programs.  Here is his question:

I am joining the Marine Corps this year with the intent to go infantry, RECON, and later into the MARSOC community.  Do you think it is smart to start running longer physical fitness evolutions, building up to 24 hour events?  My biggest concern is I don't think I could get anyone else to do it with me, and doing anything like that without a buddy makes me instantly uneasy.  Really, the whole purpose behind it would be to test and build my mental toughness and ability to persevere and follow through on what I set out to do.  Is this a smart idea? I appreciate your thoughts.  Thanks in advance - John

If you consider your timeline, you have a few years to prepare yourself for the rigors of a special ops selection program (RECON / MarSOC), though the USMC Boot Camp is legit and the School of Infantry will be challenging as well. So before you start preparing for too many gut checks, focus on what you are about to endure in the next year or so.  Your focus should be on crushing the USMC PFT, rucking, and practicing the events of the USMC Combat Fitness Test (CFT).  Those are your immediate needs and anything else is really just something "fun" to do and try. 

Personally, I would not do too many of those 24+ hour events, maybe one and a race event before you leave (within a year) is never a bad experience for pre-spec ops training. If you have more time (like 2-3 years), you can definitely do more. But you do not need to do them alone. Consider programs like the SOCOM Athlete Hellday events, or try an Obstacle Course race, or GORUCK.com events are great way to prepare for longer Spec Ops / Rucking / Infantry training days with like minded people.  These are fun races and even gut checks that will be a good challenge and you can build up to during your training cycles. 

The reason why I say limit what gut check events you do when you have months remaining before you enter the military is because there is always a risk at getting injured and screwing up your training for weeks or months even. 

For instance, I would say the same thing to other athletes:

Triathlete - One SEAL candidate was into doing triathlons and riding his bike on the road.  I recommended him reduce the practice bike riding (do stationary bike) just for safety purposes six months before his shipped.  The reason I made this recommendation was a candidate got hit by a car about 3 months before his ship date and was postponed for a year while he healed up / got medical waivers for surgeries, etc.  An accident but not smart. 

MMA Fighter and other contact sports (rugby etc) - Several injuries have occurred with this type of client from BJJ, boxing, wrestling, and MMA fighting.  Broken fists, hyper extended joints and concussions are common with these activities.  Months prior to shipping out you should stop to avoid this type of injuries.  

Endurance Runner Or even worse a non-running athlete using an endurance race as a gut check.  These do not typically end well for the spec ops candidate looking to test his mettle. I have seen severe shin injuries, knees, and hip injuries that prevented the candidate from running for 2-3 months. If you do that too close to your ship out date, it could interfere with your abilities to meet / exceed the standards.  Some have even had to have surgery - once again - great gut check or stupid? 

Going USMC, Infantry, RECON, MarSOC

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For what you want to do, running, rucking, swimming, and PT are the bare minimum of what you should be mainly focused on.  If load-bearing or swimming are weaknesses, you should also mix in a lifting cycle to build more durability and practice swimming and treading (with clothes on!) as well.  The RECON Screener weekend is no joke and will test your water skills, PFT, CFT, Obstacle Course, and rucking abilities. But these RECON screening tests are a regular occurrence at Lejeune and Pendleton on a weekend each month usually. 

MarSOC is even further down the road for you as you become a veteran Marine - see MarSOC Raider Recruiting pages. 

One thing you need to know is that there is no 45 minute gym workout that will prepare you for a day of any Spec Ops training program.  Do too many workouts like as your training prep and you will last a few hours during your actual training in the Marines. So you need to up your game but with concerns for safety and injury prevention as well. 

Putting in the Time -Your rucks will be 3 hours some days.  Add in long runs and rucks, a long swim, and your weights and PT workouts and you are talking about 3-4 hours of training in a day.  That is a decent gut check especially if you can make it an "easy day". 

BUT you have to progress to that level – don’t just jump into a 10-15 mile run, ruck, gut check event out of nowhere.  That is one sure way of getting injured and screwing up your training timeline.

The short answer is - build up to gut check events over time.  If you do a gut check, make sure you have time to recover and do not do something new and that lasts 24+ hours as someone who is not conditioned for it physically.  There is no sense in breaking yourself physically to make yourself mentally tougher - you just did a stupid thing if you do that. That is the difference between mentally tough and stupid.  

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